Day 5
Often love is thought to be between two-one and the other. When there is another, you don’t feel totally one with the person. You always question and doubt the other person’s love for you.
If you doubt whether the other person really loves you or not, you will be unable to love them unconditionally, unable to merge with them. Certain things you have to take for granted.
One thing is the love of the other person from whom you want love. You have to take it for granted. Even if the love is not there, you must feel that it is there, means feeling totally one with the other.
That is divine love. Be indifferent to anything that appears to be opposing it. It might happen that you are in love with God, and sometimes things happen that don't seem to show that God is really in love with you. But ignore those things.
A saint was once spreading the message of God in villages. One rainy day he came back home and found that most of the roof of his little hut lay broken in the rain.
His disciple got very angry and blamed God for being so cruel. “We have been working so hard for you and you couldn't even save one roof for us”, he complained. On the other hand, the saint was so thankful, “Oh God, you are so kind, you saved half the hut so that our heads don't get wet”.
“In this big storm the whole house could have been destroyed. Now we can also see the stars and the moon.” Whatever appears to be opposing love, you just be indifferent to it. Otherwise it is very easy to get drawn into the opposite values of love, hatred, anger, jealousy and frustration.
If you want to be centred in love, you have to drop anything that appears to be opposing love, otherwise you will be caught up in the cycle of opposites and you will never be free, you can never achieve that perfection.
You are born to be perfect and the perfection is not in action or speech, perfection is in the being. The perfection in the being alone can bring perfection in speech and action and to be perfect in the Being, you need to immerse yourself in that intense love.
How does one feel this sense of ‘no other’? Often you have so many other supports, for e. g. you are on a spiritual path and you go to an astrologer and ask if you will make progress? What will happen? You are taking another support.
It is dropping the crutches and the mind is looking for crutches. It is looking for some anchor here and there, for e.g, if you feel negative, you go and talk to someone. If anyone supports your negativity, you start feeling better.
If someone shuns your negative statement, it irritates you. Krishna said in the Bhagavad Gita : I am there for the one who is one- pointed and does not look for other supports. “I become the feet for those who do not look for crutches, I become the eyes for those who do not look for glasses”.
