Ayurveda Initiative Global: THE OTHER SIDE OF FRIENDLINESS

Weekly Knowledge 290

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31 Jan 2001

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THE OTHER SIDE OF FRIENDLINESS

Secretaries, police, judges, accountants and people in key positions should not be friendly!

The main disadvantages of being friendly are:

1. You come under obligation

2. You lose your freedom

3. You can't have a free and fair perception. Your thoughts and actions may not be impartial

4. Your focus, commitment, creativity and above all your time will be wasted

5 You will pick up bad habits and negative moods easily

It takes a lot of wisdom to be free from the burden of obligation and not be influenced by your friends' opinions and feelings.

In many occasions, it is better to be unfriendly than be friendly. Being unfriendly does not mean being aggressive and inimical. The best secretaries, personal assistants, security personnel, and judges have to be unfriendly.

Those who are aloof and indifferent get centered more quickly than those who are too friendly. A certain degree of aloofness in every relationship will strengthen your personality and connect you to your source.

Vinod Sethi: It's very easy to be very aloof or very friendly. But to be friendly and aloof is a Sadhana.

Harish: Be an unfriendly friend!!

🌸Jai Guru Dev🌸

साप्ताहिक ज्ञानपत्र २९०

३१ जनवरी, २००१

स्विट्जरलैंड

मित्रता का दूसरा रूप

सेक्रेटरी, पुलिस, जज, अककॉउंटें और प्रधान पदों पर नियुक्त लोगो मे मित्रता भाव नही होना चाहिए। मित्रता भाव होने से प्रमुख हानियां , ये होती है:

# तुम एहसान के बोझ तले दब जाते हो।

# तुम अपनी स्वतंत्रता खो बैठते हो।

# तुम्हारा बोध स्वतंत्र और भेदभाव रहित नही होता।

# तुम्हारे विचार और कृत्य में शायद निष्पक्षता न रहे।

# तुम्हारे संकेन्द्रण , सृजनात्मकता और खास तौर से तुम्हारा समय नष्ट होता है। तुम केंद्रित नही रह पाते और अपनी सृजनात्मकता, प्रतिबद्धता व समय को व्यर्थ गवां देते हो।

# तुम गलत आदतों और नकारात्मक भावनाओ की ओर उन्मुख होते हो।

एहसान के बोझ से मुक्त होने के लिए और मित्रों की राय और भावनाओं से प्रभावित न होने के लिए ज्ञान की आवश्यकता होती है।

कई अवसरों पर मित्रता की अपेक्षा अमित्रता होना अच्छा है। अमित्रता का अर्थ विपक्षी या आक्रमक होना नही है। श्रेष्ठ सेक्रेटरी, निजी सहायक, निजी सुरक्षको और जजों को अमित्रवत होना चाहिए।

जो लोग निष्पक्ष और न्यारे होते है, वे जल्दी ही केंद्रित हो जाते है, अपेक्षाकृत उन लोगो के जो मित्रवत होते है। संबंधों से संतुलित मात्रा में अलगाव होने से तुम्हारा व्यक्तित्व को बल प्राप्त होता है और तुम अपने स्रोत से जुड़ जाते हो।

विनोद सेठी- बिल्कुल अलग होना या पूर्ण मित्रवत होना बहुत आसान है। परंतु मित्रवत और अलग होना एक साधना है।

हरीश- अमित्रवत मित्र हो जाओ।

🌸जय गुरुदेव🌸

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